Saturday, December 11, 2010

Should the Sins of the Fathers Be Visited on the Children?

News today has it that Bernie Madoff's son committed suicide. That raises the interesting, perennial question, Should the sins of the fathers be visited on the children?

I used to live in a Chicago suburb (after a moment's though I decided against naming it) that was famous (or infamous) for being home to two or three big Mafia figures. One of my neighbors talked about going to the local high school with the daughter of one of these guys. The neighbor said the Mafioso's daughter was pretty much shunned by her classmates. (You can read the latter's own story in her book Mafia Princess. Disclaimer: I haven't read it.) To me it's a very interesting discussion, whether it's fair or not to view such people as tainted by the lives or actions of their parents.

The great Norwegian playwright Henrik Ibsen wrote a play called Ghosts. This play revolves around a mother and her son—and the "ghost" of the dead husband and father. It turns out (spoiler alert!) that because the father had led a very dissolute and sexually promiscuous life, which his wife very assiduously covered up, the son at the end of the play is starting to show dementia due to the syphilis that he inherited from his father. So that is an instance where in a very literal and physical way, the sins of the father were visited upon the children (but it seems the wife and mother deserves a good deal of blame for completely whitewashing her husband's memory).

I think it's an interesting issue. I think the Old Testament says that the sins of the fathers are visited upon the children, but that may seem very harsh to us nowadays.

Copyright © 2010 by Richard Stein

Our Complicated Electronic Gadgets

I finally popped for one of those gigantic LCD TVs, or "flat-screens" as evidently they've come to be called. Believe it or not, for quite a while I'd been mainly watching a 20" CRT (picture tube) TV, and in fact that was the biggest TV I'd ever owned.

I completely leapfrogged over the era when people were buying those huge devices called DLP TVs that would totally dominate a room. Sit in the corner and stare at you. Usually, I'm not the first one to go right out and buy some new technology or toy—but I'm not the last, either.

It seems like every new electronic device is so complicated. Luckily, this TV (and probably almost all of them) steps you through the initial setup—at least the channel scan—with prompts. And for audio and picture settings, there are the factory defaults or presets. I have a feeling that 98% of owners use those presets and never change them.

Which gets me to my main point. How many of us really know how to exploit the features and settings and options of our electronic toys—our cell phones, our computers, even our cars? I know for fact that, since computer ownership has become so mainstream, many people have a very shaky knowledge of, say, their operating system (e.g., Windows) and need some sort of computer help at one time or another. So operation has gotten too complex. Consumer Reports magazine recently rated some Ford and Lincoln models as "not recommended," because their command system--MyFord Touch and MyLincoln Touch, I believe--is too complicated. They said good old-fashioned knobs and switches would be better: easier to use and less distracting for the driver.

Then there's just the matter of hook-up. An awful lot of people need help just with hooking up their TVs, computers, etc. I know because I have helped others hook up their computers, stereos, and so forth, many times. And occasionally I myself have been confused, if only momentarily, by a complicated hookup.

I can manage my computer all right and seldom if ever have had to seek any help. And ditto for my cell phone. With my previous car, I had to spend a lot of time studying the owner's manual, since it was somewhat fancy and had a lot of features I wasn't accustomed to. ("The car will do such-and-such, except when this or that or an alternate Tuesdays.") I bet we often discover some of the features only accidentally (happened to me).


I tend to feel that all this stuff complicates our lives. Yes, it's definitely cool what some of these things can do. Our "toys" are fun, convenient, helpful. But I find myself yearning for the days when my clock radio (probably now over 30 years old) would have been considered complicated. I feel I'm almost capable of becoming a real Luddite (named for a man who was a leader in protests and even sabotage of the new machinery that came in with the Industrial Revolution).

Interestingly, later (since I originally posted this) there came news that Consumer Reports removed its recommendations on one Ford and one Lincoln vehicle because their touch-screen-driven command system (MyFord Touch and MyLincoln Touch) is unnecessarily complicated and too much of a distraction to the driver. They said good old-fashioned knobs and switches would be better. Kinda makes me think that we've been seeking complexity and sophistication for its own sake and not for practical reasons or for real utility.

Also, from where I stand I think there is an age thing going on. Some of my friends my age continue to be knowledgeable of, and comfortable with, all these technological innovations. But a lot of people my age (and younger) need help with, for example, learning to use their computers. The other day I heard an 84-year-old man say that he didn’t know what karaoke is. As the writer Judith Viorst once said, It's hard to be hip after 40.

Copyright © 2010 by Richard Stein

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

My Newest Pet Peeve--Acronyms

I have a new pet peeve—acronyms.

A couple of months ago I wrote the author of an online article, castigating him for using acronyms in his article and never spelling them out. Good writing practice would be to give both the spelled-out form and the acronym for the first occurrence of the term; then subsequent occurrences can use just the acronym.

But unfortunately too many writers assume we are familiar with the acronym. Just today I saw PMP and didn't know what it meant. And, still today, I saw NWS, but was able to figure that one out, largely from the context—National Weather Service. And I've had the experience of having to figure out an acronym or at least hunt pretty hard for the full form a couple other times within the last few days.

Certain fields are notorious for talking in "alphabet soup." That's fine, as long as the readers as well as the writers are clued in and speak the same language. But, rather than assuming that your reader can follow you, a writer should do as I said above, give the spelled-out form the first time.

And I won't even go into the usage of the military, where acronyms like NORAD and collapsed forms of words like noncom (non-commissioned officer) are the norm. George Orwell, in his novel 1984 (written in 1949) called such usage "newspeak." He portrayed it as one of the tools of his fictional totalitarian society. I don't think the usage of bureaucrats and technocrats has gotten any better in this respect since Orwell's day.

Anyway, what I have recourse to (and recommend to my readers) is an immensely useful website, www.acronymfinder.com.

Copyright © 2010 by Richard Stein

Monday, December 6, 2010

The Population Problem--Again

The following problems all have one thing in common:

  1. Extinction of plant and animal species on land
  2. Depletion of the oceans' fish due to overfishing
  3. Air and water pollution
  4. Demand for energy that has consequences such as oil spills
  5. Global warming, which in turn is caused by
  • Rainforest destruction
  • Greenhouse gas emissions

All these things are ultimately caused by, and are being made worse by, TOO MANY PEOPLE. More people means more energy used, more pollution and more trash created as our waste, and more land used for housing, shopping centers, etc.

The human species has been too successful on this planet, at the expense of other species. We are crowding out other species because we are destroying habitat to create human homes and farms. We are making the planet uninhabitable because of our waste products.

The world's population was less than 2 billion in 1920. Forty years later, in 1960, it had grown by 50%, to 3 billion. After another forty years (2000) it had doubled to 6 billion.* So the rise is exponential. Can anyone see the danger here?

We can't blame the very populous countries like China and India. China has limited its families to having only one child and India has made progress in limiting its population growth.

We can't blame African or South American countries.

People in America feel that, if they can afford to do so, they should have all the children they want. And they feel we have plenty of space in America.

This is not so. Even American population growth has its consequences. Yesterday's U.S. farms are today's shopping malls and subdivisions. We are straining water resources in much of the West. For example, Los Angeles' water demand for years now has meant that that city essentially steals water from lakes and rivers far to the north, and these lakes and rivers are drying up because their water is piped to Los Angeles. Other desert cities like Las Vegas also have to have their water—a lot of it, in the case of Vegas—brought from far away.

Also, every American added to the world's population places a greater strain on the world's ecosystem than a human anywhere else, because nowhere else in the world—not even in Europe—do people consume as much energy—as much of everything—and create as much waste as an American does. America, with just 5 percent of the world's people, uses 25 percent of the world's resources.

A fundamental change is needed in how we view human fertility. We must stop congratulating parents when they have seven or six or five or even four children. From the standpoint of the welfare of the planet, such uncontrolled fertility is downright immoral, and we need to begin to view it that way and exercise "social control" (if not law, as in China) to discourage over-reproduction. I feel the government should stop incentivizing the bearing of children as it does with the current income tax deduction. At least the deduction should apply only to the first one or two children.

Of course we also need to have the Catholic Church stop discouraging birth control. An optimistic sign is that, in some areas of South America, women may defy both their husbands and the Catholic Church and travel great distances to get family planning advice.
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* Source: Wikipedia, s.v. world population.

Update, November 25, 2011
Predictions now call for another billion people (to 8 billion, from the 7 billion reached very recently) to be added by the year 2024. Of course this, like any prediction, is based on a certain scenario, certain assumptions. It is actually not a worst-case scenario and in fact assumes a decrease in the world-wide fertility rate.

Population increases not only because of the number of births but also because of increasing life expectancy.

As to the Catholic Church and contraception, here are some interesting statistics for the current use of contraception by religious group:
Evangelicals, 74%
Mainstream Protestants, 73%
Catholics, 68%

So, the notion seems to be correct that a majority of Catholic women in the US (and this would hold for other developed countries) ignore their church's teachings on birth control. However, note that the number is still lower than for other religious groups. And, if I had statistics for heavily Catholic countries such as those in Latin America, I'm confident that they would show that the rate of use of family planning methods is lower in those countries.

Only 2% of Catholic women use "natural family planning (periodic abstinence, temperature rhythm, and cervical mucous tests)," according to statistics reported by Population Connection. This finding is reasonable since those methods are not very effective.

Copyright © 2010 by Richard Stein

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Some Thoughts on Money

First, two I have quoted before:

I've been rich, and I've been poor. And believe me, rich is better. (Sophie Tucker)

Them what has, gets. (my late mother; and no, she didn't normally talk like that)


And a couple of others:

Only those who already have enough money can scorn or despise money.

In a biopic about Katherine Hepburn, who came from a very well-to-do Connecticut family, there is a scene where Katherine brings Howard Hughes home to her family. In reply to a comment of Hughes', one of Katherine's family—I think it was her mother—says, "We never talk about money." Again, that's an attitude only the very comfortably well off can take—or can afford to take.

The late, great Anna Russell—a British performer who created satires and spoofs of musical works--wrote a little work to illustrate "writing your own Gilbert and Sullivan operetta." In this little satirical operetta of hers, she has a character sing,

Oh, it's awfully, awfully funny,
To have lots and lots of money,
And be horrible to those who've none.


Copyright © 2010 by Richard Stein

Friday, December 3, 2010

Hold Your Nose, Here's an Unpleasant Subject!

Here's a subject you don't see discussed every day—poop. That's poo, doo-doo, shit, crap, good old feces. (Yes, I'm really blogging about it!) No doubt it's discussed by doctors with their patients, but it's a subject we're not completely comfortable with.

Of course it's an essential and inevitable part of everyday life. (And if it's not literally every day, we say we're constipated. Sorry for the little joke, couldn't resist.) There was a book for children called Everybody Poops. (Along somewhat the same lines, there was also a children's book—and I love this one—called The Gas We Pass.) Yet I bet we are uncomfortable with it.

I wonder how many people wish they didn't have to poop. My late mother was, shall we say, very fastidious, and I bet she wished she didn't have to poop.

(And speaking of the fastidious--a year ago I spent some time with a very old (in both senses) boyfriend of mine and found out he's really quite obsessive about cleaning his "B-hole," as he called it, after going to the bathroom. I put him on to those wet wipes which work very well for that purpose. Now he'll think of me every time he wipes his ass. Sweet.)

Think about people who are hospitalized and have to use a bed pan, have to call for someone to bring the bed pan and then take it away. I bet the patient hates having to do that, both having to have the help and having to make someone else carry away his or her poop.

Worse, the ill or infirm person who (as we say, rather euphemistically) "soils himself."

We are uncomfortable with bodily products—secretions, discharges, and so forth: feces, urine, nasal discharge, vomit. But presumably not tears and not (for most people) blood. Maybe not earwax. One could probably think of some others.

An interesting theory was proposed by an anthropologist to explain this. He said that we are made uncomfortable by any ambiguity between the "me" and the "not-me." That's interesting, and perhaps plausible considering that an infant has to learn the boundaries between the "me" and the "not-me," and in the course of doing so will put his toe in his mouth.

But this theory might not hold up. As I mentioned, probably most people don't strongly dislike blood. Nor nail clippings, shorn hair, maybe not earwax and some others. If these are possible problems with that anthropologist's clever idea, then we still need an explanation as to why we are uncomfortable with poop, etc. Of course--and I have to add this before someone else points this out--with poop and vomit also, part of our aversion may be due to the smell.

Copyright © 2010 by Richard Stein

Thursday, December 2, 2010

I Know I've Said This Before: The Republican Party Is for the Rich

We are just now seeing evidence of something I've been saying for a long time. The Republicans in Congress are opposing a tax-cut extension if it does not continue the tax breaks for the rich.

If anyone needed evidence that the Republican Party is all about the rich and privileged, they should take note of this and doubt no longer.

I just cannot comprehend the "common man" who supports the Republicans when (as I know I have said repeatedly) they are the party of the rich, the privileged, and big, powerful corporations (who unabashedly buy legislators' support).

We keep hearing how serious the nation's deficit, and the national debt, are. Raising taxes on those who can afford it the best should be a no-brainer. I can't understand how the Republicans think the American public in general will have enough sympathy for the rich to want to spare them a tax increase.

But wait a minute. There has been this phenomenon in America: Americans would never (just to conjure up an image as an example) stone the Rolls-Royces. It's because every American believes he might some day be rich. For the poorer folks, maybe it's a foolish faith that they're going to win the lottery, or that some other miracle is going to happen for them. But studies have shown, nearly everyone in America thinks he might be rich some day. On the other hand, with the grim economic conditions we've had recently, maybe many Americans have begun to wake up from that chapter of "the American dream."

Copyright © 2010 by Richard Stein